Somebody is very nice . The nice is the central keyword here.
He does everything in his power to be nice and gives no reason to have a doubt the genuineness which one possibly has. It is the nature of the person that is intriguing , not the deeds he is performing. It seems nature dictates the deeds out of a person. When you have been a reason for the actions ,there is a reason to think what makes these the person so good. Is that his inner beauty that i totally do not believe (the concept ). Or is it the driven by a motive ,which i am not capable of deducing. Is it love to the person for which he has taken pains (according to me)or is it just a random act of kindness.
People ,mothers especially love their first born .Seen it in movies ,tv shows and i see all around me everyday. People never forget that big paycheck that they had been working for so many years ,first kiss with their girlfriend , first car they bought first time they had sex ,or for that matter everything that is big in its nature and unique and did the first time. I put mother's love for their first child at the top most position.
Is it the uniqueness of the of the thing and that wholesome experience that they get that drives them crazy for their entire lives or the realization that it was a thing that got intended as a gift for which they had been sent on earth ,and should accept it with open arms.
What confuses me is the total exclusion of self interest in the deeds and act that people perform for these unique things. The consistency and kindness where nothing in return is what they actually want. Love is base of all evil i heard someone say . I don't know that someone because i did not like that guy . But love saves people in the most tumultuous times. Saved me atleast .