Case 1:
Ujjwal, a friend of mine, is crazy about Urvi, this classmate of mine. I dont talk to them much. They end up together and I couldn't be happier for them, they are sorted individuals who fell in love. Kind of a happily ever after situation. Even with their long distance, they are understanding towards each other and do not indulge in declaring their love to the whole universe. Okay, they did post some photos, but they were subtle. And didn't ask "Do we look good together?"
Case 2:
Abhishek, a friend of mine, and Sonali (best-friend) start dating.
Backstory: Abhishek kind of (used to?) liked me. Sonali says she loves this old friend of hers Himesh. She goes on to propose Himesh and gets rejected. Then she starts talking to Abhishek a lot and 10 days later, they are a couple! I am stunned. (Ranvijay's expressions) And suddenly my whatsapp is filled with their collages, I am hearing about their plans to get married and how they cant live without each other. The girl gets drunk and threatens to suicide if she can't get married to him. She tells me how he plans to buy a car so that he doesn't have to pick her up in a bike. Cheesy much?
And then I meet the guy after a long time, he seems disinterested, complains about her, talks about priority (and that she isn't). He jokes about breakup when they aren't even 6 months into the relationship. While hanging out with the guy, I see him looking at a photo of him and us (he was drunk at the moment). It freaks me out.
Conclusion: What the fuck should I do? Any suggestions?
I don't like Abhishek like that and if what I perceive is true, then I am not liking him as a person much. I value my friendship with Sonali but not at the sake of my so-called ideals.