After writing "What a "Normal" Guy expects in his Partner", and it ranked as one of the weekly top three, i got in-boxed on wb and fb by some people say to write about what a normal girl would expect in her partner (most of them girls).
I'm like how can I possibly write about that?? I'm a guy. Some girl should write it. And as always I couldn't win with female argument and I am forced to write it. Well to speak the truth. None of these points mentioned below are mine. I have collected those points from women (Not girls) itself as-to what they would possibly expect in their partner so guys please read very carefully. This article is long because it about a women!
If you didn't read the earlier one, here's the link :
http://www.writerbabu.com/post/what-a-normal-guy-expects-in-his-partner-/8186/
From the writer: People say to me "Women are complicated" Well they are complicated if you make them complicated. Sometimes they are confused, but hey! Who the hell isn’t?!
Life is a journey where every girl requires someone in her life to share her grief’s, sorrow, happiness… A Partner.
And when I mean a girl, I really mean to say a bloody normal girl!! :D
The one who doesn't care about how her guy looks but loves him the way he is..The girl who tries to peep through the guy’s heart and not his bank balance. And yeah the girl who really cares about her guy and his well being..
Girl’s do want guys who are financially stable, but what’s wrong in that? She has to spend her whole life with that guy. She can at-least expect this.
A girl's every first love is her Dad. She will want her partner to be the same as her dad & she will compare any guy to her dad who she wishes her partner to be.
A girl tries to see her first super hero i.e. her dad in a guy she wish to spend the rest of her life. Because she knows he's been the only male who can never hurt her for anything, treat her like a princess and protect her against every harm that befalls. He should not think of her past but try to decorate her life with his love and care.
She doesn't need a cool guy, who can give her all the comforts, but she needs that true care, affection and love that she deserves. She doesn't need someone who keeps talking and praising about her how beautiful she is, but the one who can respect her for what she. The one who can love her for what she is inside..!!
A normal girl doesn’t get impressed with the bike u have, or the phone you use. You don't have to act like a creep to impress coz a Normal girl can only love that protective nature of yours!!
She just expects her guy to pamper when she feels low, because every girl has this kid in her, and she needs to be pampered at times. She wants him to understand her aims in life and Stand by her in every walk of life..
A girl wants her life partner to be loyal, supportive understanding, trustworthy.
He should respect his in laws as he respect his parents, she wants her mother in law should help her in adjusting with the new surrounding and new place.
She expects him to understand she's also like his mum who needs some respect, whose opinions also have some point and value..
Whenever she is ill/sick she wants him to stay with her and help her recover & any loss or failure in her life should be supported by him..
People you want to show that you love your women? Respect Her & Thoughts. That’s all she would want more than anything.
And for all the girls who are reading this, yeah you may get a rich, very good looking guy.. But it all fades wit time, what remains is the care, true love that comes from within…:)
- All the credits to the people who made me write it and helped me write it.
/* One more addition by an anonymous contributer
Its true that a girl/woman expects respect from her partner but more importantly she wants her partner to be her really good friend. 😃 she wants someone who does not judge her for the way she is and understand that she is not perfect, she has her own faults, her weirdness, her anger along with all the sweet stuff. Her partner should be her best friend and think that she is the best inspire of all the above shortcomings! Also women are very vocal so its obvious she expect the same from her partner. If you are not a vocal person, simply write down small notes to her, send her small but really effective messages(and come on dont even complain about not having a SMS pack, nowadays EVERYONE has watsapp) Simple. Just do this and see your world change guys. And yeah please don't say we are nagging you. We really don't mean to do so. And if u think you are too busy for taking 2 -5 minutes from your work for
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