1. Not every girl wants to get married by 23. So
before you ASSUME she's of marriageable age,
ask her what her views on marriage are. One
hint, might save you the drama- just because
she does not want to get married now does not
mean she never will. She has other plans for
herself right now, let her live a little.
2. Just because a girl wishes to do her PhD
after Masters does not mean she doesn't want
to settle down in life. Give her a break, and
respect the fact that she has the confidence to
take that up, cos yeah, PhD is no joke. There
will come a point when she would happily
devote herself to her family, and balance it out
with her work life. Her degrees, or lack of them,
won't make any difference. Let her study while
she wants to, okay?
3. Just because she is 27 and unmarried does
not mean she's been rejected by many men.
Maybe, being single is a choice she has made.
4. Having a boyfriend does not make her
characterless.
5. Just because she has recently gone through
a break up doesn't mean she is vulnerable and
available.
6. Just because most of her friends are boys,
does not mean she is"having a good time"with
all of them.
7. Just because she has a drink in her hand
does not mean she is an alcoholic.
8. Just because she wore a short skirt to one
party does not mean she dresses up that way
every day.
9. Just because she is ambitious doesn't mean
she isn't a family person.
10. Just because she doesn't discuss her plans
doesn't mean she's clueless about life. Give her
a chance, alright?
11. Just because she is outspoken doesn't
mean she is a rebel.
12. Just because she comes home late from
work does not mean she is sleeping around
with her colleagues.
13. After a hectic week, give her some time to
relax over the weekend. Don't make that one
weekend party make her look like a she's a
frivolous party-girl without a job.
14. Just because she is out shopping alone
does not mean she is depressed or lonely. It's
how she relaxes, respect that.
15. Just because she is on a holiday alone does
not mean she doesn't have company. Maybe
it's a break to get back her lost confidence, or
maybe that's how she is. Admire her spirit
instead of giving her advice, okay?
16. Just because she is a woman doesn't mean
she can't kick ass in military school.
17. Just because she has a tattoo doesn't
mean she is attention seeking. Maybe that's her
way of expression.
18. Just because she doesn't know how to
cook doesn't mean she won't make a good
wife. Remember when you were just married
and cooked chicken curry which was um, a
disaster?
19. Just because she likes everything pink and
shiny and fluffy doesn't mean she lives in her
own world. She can handle some situations
much better than her male counterparts.
20. Just because she is pretty does not mean
she is a whore. And just because she is friendly
does not mean she is flirting with you.
Yes, they cry, they are emotional; they take things
personally, and sometimes over-react to
situations. But this does not give any one the
right to judge them in the wrong way. Times are
changing; don't confine them within those
boundaries, no matter how orthodox you are.
There are some who might be fighting this
losing battle, yet compromising on their
decisions and plans, just to please society.
Respect Women
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