one day, suddenly, i noticed that a statistics says the numeric value of percentage increased to 64%. Well for your kind information, this percentage value is nothing but crimes attempted by the teenagers.
well lets begin from the start, many distinguished people says,” Love can change a person the way a parent can change a baby — awkwardly, and often with a great deal of mess.”
Now you are thinking, all of a sudden!! Love!! Why?
It has been recorded that, maximum teenage pregnancy, murders, suicide cases arises from sexuality and role of drugs and alcohol use, and love – break up problem. Studies have indicated that adolescent girls are often in abusive relationships at the time of their conceiving. They have also reported that knowledge of their pregnancy has often intensified violent and controlling behaviours on part of their boyfriends. This is our so called modern society .isn’t it?
Concept of love: Four forms of interpersonal love have traditionally been distinguished based on ancient Greek precedent: the love of kinship or familiarity (in Greek, storge), the love of friendship (philia), the love of sexual and/or romantic desire (eros), and self-emptying or divine love (agape).
Well, i wish, we could really learn the love in this way, from very beginning of our life! Like we learn A, B, C.
but now a day’s love has just one definition to new generation, and that is “Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It’s just a little while, and then it burns away… Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality.”
Today’s love arises from our childhood crush, today’s children are very much sensitive about love and they found it very easy problem to solve than any other numeric problem and so they undergo this challenge and found girl friend or boy friend. So the word depression is used to describe our today’s generation from very beginning of our lives. Now come to teenagers, social networking sites, YouTube, and many other sites are always ready to entertain our lives with their readymade features and popularity. They found it a dream come true opportunity, to enter the world of fashion.
But when they get stuck by numerous hacker and cyber crime, suicide is the only way out to them. Don’t you think, all these messes are only due to misconception?
Study becomes a second option to relate with their lives. Well what about “masti?” Oh yes they do gossiping about what are they going to do , on their next valentine’s day , or how to look more fabulous to their partner, how much money they have spent on their partner to show economical status, and then some a bit of adult conversation. Well i think you are right, what i am going to describe this shit. It’s nothing but a kind of show off that we are going to deal with.
If someone winks at you, that is love. If somebody talks to you more than 5 minutes, its love.
If someone asks for your copybook, well then there’s something surely called love
Love is not a thing that you can buy and show to your friends.
Today’s biggest crime is not having a partner. That means you don’t know how to live life, not even know how to walk on the street having no partner, oh my god you are such a geek, ewww!!.
There’s a saying,” if you know how to walk on the rock, then you would know how to grip yourself while walking on the plain.”
There are thousands of children, teenagers, who are fighting with the situations that they have to overcome to spend rest of their life healthy, secure, and normal.
Today’s generation is very much getting obsessed due to misconception about living life. Unknowingly they are just taking pressure on their weak shoulder.
Love doesn’t mean only loving your partner, love is truly in the air, and love is in everything. A thing exists only because we love it. Love is in small things, our life is long, but what we do in our life exists for short duration and then again another situation comes up with its problem. We should not end up our life with a long list including unsolved problems. We are on the earth to live life, so live it honestly, and everyone would love you(Newton’s third law). Stop judging yourself on relationship scales, do flirt, do love, but a have limit, because that is what reflects your ethical values. If you can’t make your bed then how would you sleep on it?
i want you guys to do two simple procedure
first one: Spread you arm, take a deep breath, then breath out the air slowly.
Second one: now take breath more quickly and frequently.
And now think for a minute, which procedure you liked most?
Well, i am hundred percent sure, it is neither. Cause we would never like breathing like a sick, and on the other side who wants to breathe like a busy running person all the time. So life is that simple don’t hurry up with what really makes life, think twice and ask yourself, do i really deserve that much of pain?
Life is not so dumb, that you think being in a relationship.
It’s all due to the misconception about love that is like fog before sun rising to our young generation. Our society is getting worse day by day by this misconception. We have to build this and protect this from being affected by that glamorous western culture.