We can easily understand by the title itself. What’s the problem with me? Seriously there are no problems, but we have more complications. Complications vary from person to person. In this modern world we are so hollowed out. Everyone complains it could be a patient to a doctor saying that he has a lot of problems, or an employee to his boss. We see people whenever asked to do something more, ‘Dude, I have my own problems, and you expect me to do this, it’s impossible.’
So here it is, every time we say that we have a problem it’s just that we do not have any problem but we have more complications. When we go deep, and try to find out the root cause of the problem, we can find an answer, worry. We worry too much, I completely agree that some worries leads to positive growth but some do not. We often feel offended. I am a teen and I know that feeling. Feeling of insecurity, feeling of dominance, feeling of guilt, etc it’s all part and parcel.
The problem is we ask for more when we have everything. I don’t want to give example of some others. But let me tell me about mine. It is just I have everything, a separate room for myself, a computer, laptop, mobile and everything. I must be happy and I am. Even I am being kept contained with an inverter so that my studies never get disturbed. We are a middle class family and we are sufficient enough and have little more to buy some luxuries. But still I used to feel like having a much bigger bike, a bigger home and all those. It is just that asking more had been a habit.
But one day I was in the class and I saw this guy, who had his one leg paralyzed and looked a little patchy. He is regularly to college, comes by bus everyday from a nearby village and studies and does every bit of work and that is more compared to me. How would I feel? It’s natural that we feel bad. But I thought for some time and then I felt proud about that guy, I felt proud about my parents who had given everything and tolerated nonsense of mine.
I don’t want to make a big face here. It’s just that when you feel down, sad or inferior, just look at those people who do not have anything but they have the knack of fighting. Our problem is not even a single percent compared to that of those. So why cry? When a worry hits you, just close your eyes and try to hear the sound of the air. It brings peace and a reason.
Sometimes confusion is happiness
