The Only Five Tips You Will Ever Need

In other words, if you had five guaranteed tips that work no matter what the situation, these would be them. Remember, understanding these points intellectually, and not integrating them on a feeling and action level, always misses the mark.
Take FULL responsibility for your life – Don’t blame others!
Bottom line – If it happened to you, it belongs to you.
You do not need to know why something happened. Most things in life do not happen in a linear way anyway.
Staying in a victim mentality, even when you can trace your misfortune directly to another person, robs you of your power to create a good life going forward.
You create your world by what you “think” and “feel” and “do.”
Our power comes in three parts – what you think, how you feel and what you ultimately do – thoughts, feelings actions.
Actions have more power than feelings and feelings have more power than thought.
When you infuse your action with positive thoughts and heartfelt feeling, you enter the process of creation.
Don’t whine or complain to gain consensus for your point of view – Step up and change what doesn’t work.
Nothing is more unattractive than whining and complaining.
You can always find someone to agree with your point of view. When you realize that is what you are doing, you need to stop.
Stepping-up gives you dignity and self-esteem.
Ask for help if you need it – Being able to receive is as important as giving.
Asking for help takes great courage.
No one can see his/her own issues – that’s why they are called issues.
Do let your ego keep you from getting good help.
Be vulnerable – You can’t love if you are closed.
Being vulnerable means you are open to it all – the good as well as the bad. That’s why many of us close our hearts – we are afraid of being hurt.
But you only have one heart. And if you close it to hurt, you also close it to love.
When you know how to take care of yourself, you are comfortable having an open heart.
The Only Five Tips You Will Ever Need

In other words, if you had five guaranteed tips that work no matter what the situation, these would be them. Remember, understanding these points intellectually, and not integrating them on a feeling and action level, always misses the mark.
Take FULL responsibility for your life – Don’t blame others!
Bottom line – If it happened to you, it belongs to you.
You do not need to know why something happened. Most things in life do not happen in a linear way anyway.
Staying in a victim mentality, even when you can trace your misfortune directly to another person, robs you of your power to create a good life going forward.
You create your world by what you “think” and “feel” and “do.”
Our power comes in three parts – what you think, how you feel and what you ultimately do – thoughts, feelings actions.
Actions have more power than feelings and feelings have more power than thought.
When you infuse your action with positive thoughts and heartfelt feeling, you enter the process of creation.
Don’t whine or complain to gain consensus for your point of view – Step up and change what doesn’t work.
Nothing is more unattractive than whining and complaining.
You can always find someone to agree with your point of view. When you realize that is what you are doing, you need to stop.
Stepping-up gives you dignity and self-esteem.
Ask for help if you need it – Being able to receive is as important as giving.
Asking for help takes great courage.
No one can see his/her own issues – that’s why they are called issues.
Do let your ego keep you from getting good help.
Be vulnerable – You can’t love if you are closed.
Being vulnerable means you are open to it all – the good as well as the bad. That’s why many of us close our hearts – we are afraid of being hurt.
But you only have one heart. And if you close it to hurt, you also close it to love.
When you know how to take care of yourself, you are comfortable having an open heart.