The Empowerment Vogue

The vogue magazine's "My Choice" video is viral.
Deepika Padukone is starring in it.

With the video going viral we are also having the critics and the supporters for the message.Some say the video is empowering adultery. Some say that the video is portraying hypocrisy.Some also say that it is too Urban..for some it is just amazing also stars like Amitabh Bachhan have appreciated it.
So What is the video??
If you haven't checked it yet go to this link and check it out then continue reading.

It's My choice how I live my life is the entire motto of the video.
Disagreed statement by many are
"to have sex outside marriage, my choice"

Oh really even though practically it is one's choice but it is ethically incorrect and even if your spouse would say that it's my choice it is intolerable for you too so that statement makes no sense when you say that.
other than this the statement about size is also taken in a way that for loosing weight she has done Kellogg's k add.
for some time I'm ignoring the video and just focusing on words spoken.

"Your Mind Is Caged"
Agreed we live in a society having patriarchy and hypocrisy. On the basis of profession and silly things we get judged. Our society has narrow mindset and most of us deny to accept that.

"My Choice to Marry or Not To Marry"
Yes it is my choice yet in our society we have to live by the consequences of our choices.

"Remember You are my choice and I'm not your privilege .The bindi on my forehead the ring on my finger ..adding your surname to my name are ornaments..They can be replaced but my love cannot so treasure that"

Truly said and in the context where the daughter-in-laws have started to free themselves from shackles of such thing but not wearing any of these never means that the feeling or emotion or loyalty in their souls have changed.

"My choice to pick you from seven billion or not"
let's go deeper in this sentence even today people during arrange marriages reject girl for silly reason such as complexion and not enough beauty. If we really understand the message then every girl must be at such a place that no boy can stand to reject him..Instead we will choose them not they because even today the boy has upper hand in our society.These were the little things but what needs to be changed in our society is not this viewpoint of people on clothes but we need to begin from where the roots are.

The urban people are getting educated accepting things.
these 'soch badlo' campaigns are there to target the mass but the only mass that gets effected is urban mass. People who have that atmosphere change their thinking or accept new things but the ones who have set their patriarchal mindset do not change be it for anyone for their sisters to the Bollywood celebrities.
And about the video "My choice" ...discrimination on any basis should not be done.
My choices must be for both men and women.
Nothing would change unless we rise above small things above petty issues above the narrow mind.
and honestly rising above these things is 'yours and my choice' and it is irrespective of the place we live or come from or things and tradition we follow.
There is this popular saying "everybody's business is nobody's business"

Guess what it is in India??

Everybody's business is definitely my favorite business we in the name of society have poked nose in everybody's matter. We all are Ever-ready batteries to know what's up with people..

If only we live and let live..If only we just live and silently fulfill our duties required we all can practically have the world we believe that should exist.

the last few lines from the video
" My pleasure may be your pain,
My songs your noise,
My order your anarchy,
Your sins my virtue.
My choices are like my fingerprints
They make me unique
I'm the universe infinite in every direction
This is my choice"

Being different is a choice everybody is having and yes their choices make them unique..So not only for women but for everyone 'you are what you choose to become and you and only you can stop yourself from becoming who you want to be'