I hate talking on phone..ever since i got a cell..i remember not a single day,when i thought of it as a bliss,i'am a very social person..extrovert in all senses but i hate talking at a stretch cause be it any conversation,it will always end up with suggestions..every human goes through problems..be it personal,social,professional anything and everything seems like a problem now and then and in our age..the "20 something"..personal life has always been our high area of interest as well as problems..what do we do when a friend calls up with his/her personal problems,do v really have answers..suggestions to their problems..??..no..never,yet we all turn to b'cm the love guru..share high end philosophy's,try and make them understand both sides of the situation..the pros..the cons,to make our friend feel better..v also degrade the other person so that he/she feels he was always right and deserves better understanding and benefit of doubt and if none then definitely a better person than the present...why do v do it???
do v really think that the person v just bombarded with our bag full of wisdom thoughts will ever follow our suggestions or even consider it??..well they never do and so don't we,have we ever followed what our friends have suggested us to do whenever we called them demanding solution to our problems??..go back and think we never did..did v ever stop calling our respective crush/gf/bf..when v were strictly instructed to wait for their call??..no v never did..infact the impatience and inquesitiveness would always lead us leaping towards the phone..we humans never need suggestions because v always happen to think of ourselves better than others spl our friends..and whom do v ask for suggestions from??..the people who are as confused as we are..what we really need is a good and a patient listener to whom we can justify our situation,solution to every problem comes with random learning from experiences,the ones we encounter in our life,so dont be afraid to make mistakes of doing something wrong,by judging ur own actions,u loose confidence in yourself..welcome the changes..the beginnings and even the end's..cause every change brings either a memory or a learning..!!
