A story of a girl n guy..
The girl is really sophisticated,sweet,harsh sometimes when needed..!
The guy is sweet,adorable,helping.. But most of the times their thoughts don't match.
The girl is always straight-forward. She is a little of control-freak. She tells off everything to her boyfriend,whatever makes her feel uneasy (regarding his behavior).
Our guy is a public person. But he lacks some of the mannerisms which should b there in a guy. This may b the case that our girl is expecting a bit too much. But she tries improving her boyfriend's personality according to her requirements. All she wants is a gentleman who everybody should like.
The girl is a party animal,but the guy is spiritual. Whenever she goes out with her friends,the guy starts fighting with her about it. So she decides not to go. She tries to understand his point view,which he never does.
Tell me guys.. Is love enough for a relationship to work ? Does she have to compromise on everything just bcoz she loves him ? When clearly they r not happy with each other.
Give ur suggestions,what should they do ? It ll mean a lot to me.. I can see my best friend smiling again if i can solve this. :)
Comments (3 so far )
Clash of opinions doesn't mean you guys love less. Male and female are different species altogether. There will be differences and every couple have it among them. Don't look for perfectness.
You can't change the other person until unless he realise it himself. Please don't try, he will be hurt and will hurt you back, more.
You should spend more time with each other in person alone rather than on chat or phone or in group. And don't discuss each other's habits and past faults. Let it go. Be a little forgiving.
Clearly you are the girl in this post and its evident from the self centered questions. Love is more of thinking for the other person and less about yourself. It comes naturally and one don't have to implement it.
You need to reignite the flame by spending some quality time with each other. To quit is always a bad option because memories will always haunt you.
Last suggestion. Lower down your expectations, you will be hurt less by small things.
Now you can see that there are bad boys like me who say things so bluntly. ;-) ... be happy ...:)
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