Our Indian society is obsessed wid
WEDDING...since childhood girls r told..."sasural
jaeygi....zimedaarri nibhana sikh le"...boys r
told..."padhega nai to job ni lagegi...job ni hogi to
shadi ni hogi"...
Many dreams r connected to marriage...not only 2
ppl...but whole society gets involved wid
wedding...so much hustle bustle..n all dis for a
"shandaar shaadi"...or a "big fat indian
wedding"...so much focus on decorations....
food..music..BARAAT..kind of as its not just a
wedding but a show off of ur status to da
society....but do v really concern about da most
important thng in da wedding...?
yes v focus on how beautiful da bride n groom
shuld look...but do v focus on is da pair happy
together..?do the girl n guy whu wud soon be
declred as Husband nd wife...r happy together..?
they r ready to spend rest of deir lives wid ech
other o not?.. do dey trust ech other to dis
extent..?..do dey knew bout each other;'s past...n
hav dey accepted it..willingly..?
its not a Show-off-status thing 4 da society...its
abut 2 families...whu wud bond toghtr 4 da rest of
deir lives...into many new relationships..
May b under deir parent's or family's pressure dey
decide to marry accrding to deir parents wish... but
wud dey b happy wid sum1 dey dont Love...or dey
evn dont know much?..No..not at all...Marriage ,no
matter arrange or luv...shud make da couple happy
coz its bout deir lives..
give dem da freedom to chose deir lifepartners..coz
ultimately dey hav to live wid ech other...not wid d
a society..v make society!!
caste...fianancial diffrnces..religions n other thngs
shud not b da barrier btwn sum1's luv...marrying
means strtng a new phase of life..n dat shud strt n
blossom wd luv ..trust n care...not under
pressure...hatred n fake honour...
m not saying go against ur families n marry....but
try to convince ur families as much possible..bcz
ur one wrong dcision of forcefully marring against
ur own wish cn spoil many ppl's lives...including ur
own...
being 18+ if u can choose Prime Minister of da
country..u cnt hav da rght to choose ur life
prtner..?
(my personl view)
::::: PK ♥MâĎĎÝ :::::
