Life is a journey of several ups and downs. What matters is , How we handle the various situations and problems that we face in our daily lives .
A strong positive attitude is what matters the most . It depends on how perceive the various things around us .
What makes a person different is not the looks or the clothes , Its the thinking and the ideologies , knowledge and the various disciplines that we make for ourselves in living a life . Living a life here means giving a meaning to the life . Look everyone lives life . Giving a meaning to the life is what is the most important thing.
How one handle criticisms and involuntary actions of tongue is what is important . See , A person doesn't live every time among the people who praise you for the goodness or the qualities in you . They may many times may criticize you and can be at the same time feel jealous for what they don't see in themselves but in you . The desire of acquiring the same can either make them feel jealous from you or hurt you by the their bitter words.
Determination and hard work is important to achieve a desired goal . Whatever you do , be it the smallest work do it with full dedication and hard work . Its not important to copy others or do what is being so popular in trend . It can anything that interests you , any field that you feel you can excel .
Just for an example : It's not important to be a doctor or an engineer , important is doing what you are interested in , what you like and what you feel is 'This is the only field you can excel and show the best of you through your work . There is always a talent that's hidden deep inside all of us . You may be an excellent writer , dancer , sports-player , musician , Guitarist , Poet , Cook , Dramatist ,Artist and so on.
Then accordingly , One should choose the field at which they are good at , unlike what others want you do .
It is after all your career and On that basis choose the best for yourselves that you are interested into , not others .
Don't get easily influenced by people . Follow your own intuitions. Keep an attitude that is so positive that you are capable enough to present your views and words , rather than believing in what others are saying . Don't trust anyone more than yourself .
Dream and follow your dreams . BE A DREAMER AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF MUCH :)