Love & Relationship ..

Betrayal in love is a common feature, based on encounters of my peers/friends of both sex.

A product of fickle mind of human desire, it is i suppose. One sees a girl, she seems special, it feels true, seems true, a feeling that is everlasting; but it doesn't. Dismaying. I think, why doesn't it last forever.

Is it the multiple choice of partners that makes the mind shift focus from one partner or the inherent lack of understanding between each other.
Does the mind seek adventurous sexual romps desiring a high filled of fun.

Is it the immaturity to handle relations or lack of patience to deal with problems. Maybe a mix of both.

Maybe they doubt their judgement in a relationship at times. Judgements - Maybe she isn't right, wasn't right or will not be right in future. Was it too fast? Oh my god...I never thought she would ask for so much time. She calls me too much, bugs me a lot. I am more attracted to that girl I saw today.

Hush! Hush! Control the mind. ........................................................

If she wasn't right, why didn't think earlier. Stop worrying about future of a relation.
Time? Dare not step into a relationship if can't spend time and work hard on it.

Initial stages of relation are decorated with the beauty of making out sessions; texting hundreds of time, with stupid smileys, gags, love-bites,funny innuendos, every hour and calling umpteen times. These are an added feature that shows the passion and vigor of a relationship. One must 'Love to Love it'. I do. I love when she does it. Makes me proud and happy and ...gives me a sense of closeness.

Mind is fickle make it strong. Tie a noose.

If scared of a relationship? don't have one!. It is a full package, includes time expectation, attention and all the things one can want. Don't lie, learn to accept the truth. It is not a custom made smooth itinerary, but a long journey with unexpected bumps on the way.

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