Dear readers,
This is not a love letter or a suicide note. They are just a few messages for all the social losers who screw up the lives of those few innocent adolescent women who have been taught as well as compelled to compromise and sacrifice for others. We end up dying frustrated and unhappy. There are anyways enough of social evils against women.
DO NOT FORGET THAT WE ARE ALSO HUMAN BEINGS. HUMAN RIGHTS ARE ASCRIBED TO US AS WELL.
1. To my dear parents: why did you give birth if you don’t know how to care for a human life? I’m your elder daughter doesn’t mean I’l keep sacrificing for your younger daughter. If you want a servant, go get a paid one. This would at least help eradicate poverty. If your younger daughter is of the ‘so-called –inferior complexion’, it isn’t my fault. You think your younger daughter would be more successful than me, stop investing on me! kill me or let me go. Set me free. I assure you the returns, though not all of it. But please do not pretend to be ideal parents. You are not amongst them. I don’t need materialistic happiness. This world is anyways full of materialistic pleasure. A child seeks emotional bonding from parents. Stop expecting too much. Expectations not only hurt the expecting but also the from whom it is expected. At times the expected feels so guilty of failure that he/she opts to end up their own life. Till today, I had this in mind that cowards commit suicide. But this doesn’t fit in always.
Its true that cowards die many times before death. I have died a hell number of times before I could confront the truth. Dear parents, if you have two or more children(keeping aside gender distinctions), kindly make sure that you aren’t biased or you don’t act biased. At times over pampering one child spoils it so such an extent that he/she tends to degrade and turn into a spoilt kid. You may not be directly responsible but you are somewhere.
Let your child face his/her own problems, fight them and win over the obstacles. All you need to do is guide them to the right path and support them when necessary. You don’t get off to the battle field and fight on his/her behalf. Let your child be self reliant. This not only makes one child dependent but also creates a sense of jealousy in the other child.
Thank you
2. To my dear relatives: kindly mind your own business and stop poking your nose in our family matters. In this era of nuclear families, how on earth do you get to see and know and feel what we go through. And unless and until you are aware of everything, you cannot pass your judgements. So please keep off!
We expect blessings and well wishes from you. That’s it. Vomit your advices when we seek them. You need not be so kind and judgemental at the same time. Keep all these for your own family. This would maintain the level of love and respect in our tiny hearts. Maintaining a relationship isn’t easy anyways. The more you complicate them, the more you would get entangled into them.
Thankyou
3. To my friends: dearest buddies, this world has turned to be so ego-centric that getting a true friend has become a real task. Its cool if you cannot be selfless and understanding. But please do not be a pain in A***. And stop back stabbing and back biting. If you don’t like me, keep it to yourself and enjoy hating me.
4. To my darling ex:
a. you are not the only one who as a career to focus on. I’m not a dumbass or an aimless creature. So stop being a loser and be brave.
b. You are not the only one who is under family pressure. And by the way, why panic even if you are being pressurized? Be a man and fight instead of crying and fighting with your girlfriend.
c. You are not the only one who has failed in love. I too have failed before. don’t forget love is just a habit. You meet a person and you find her similar to what you are. You get attracted towards her. You start finding her beautiful. You keep meeting her. You go all the way like some hero who is broke yet reaches to meet his girlfriend who is ill. And then, you conclude that you have fallen in love. The moment you start dating and time passes by, you dig out all the differences and then comes up all the ego clashes and heated discussions. And then like a great soul you quote “you deserve a much better guy” and decide to break up. C’mon sir! Grow up..! what have you been doing for so long then? Would you get a divorce ‘n’ number of times and again get married ‘n’ number of times? Breaking up isn’t the solution to every problem.
d. Get rid of your ego. Will take you no where and you might tumble any moment.
e. Kindly stop making me feel that you did a favour by being with me as my ‘man’. Stop counting all that you have done for me. just because I don’t keep a track of what I did for you doesn’t mean you would make me count your favours.
f. You don’t remember anything worth it. You are loaded with pressures yet you remember how much you have spent on me? please keep a track on how much I had spent on you as well.
g. You are no one to decide my life. You are no one to decide whether I should be with you or get away from you. We are two different individuals altogether. so let me decide what I want.(it isn’t necessary if I’m educated or not. Decisions are decisions.)
h. I’m your girlfriend and not a crystal doll with whom you share your emotions. So if you want someone to lend you listening ears, be kind to lend yours as well.
i. How is it that as soon as we get into a relationship ,you turn broke? I’m not here to support you financially and emotionally. Look up to my wishes as well.
I cant keep smiling for you neither can I be so supportive. You can never think from my standpoint coz you are too self centered.
Thank you
5. To my super ex : nothing much for losers. Just start reading some novels. would help you get out of cliché’
Thank you
6. To the rest of the world : don’t give a damn about you..! as if you care about me..!
But yes, I have written my heart out in very simple words. And speaking out frustrations is of great relief.
Thankyou
