Its an old saying that "jo hota hai ache ke lie hota hai". Some people say its just a consolation for losers, some say its a bloody optimism crap and if a successful person says that, it becomes a way of life.
Whatever.
Now lets look at it closely. As you move ahead in your life you realize that all things have fallen in place and life would not be this awesome if it would have taken another path. Rite.
Or
My life is just awesome right now, and I don't know what it would have been if I would have chosen another path (or thing would not have happen, or i would have met this person before blah blah), so this is the best for me.
In nut shell you kind of believe in this. I also strongly believe its true, and more importantly it helps you in moving on, to let go.. :)
But there still some times some thing hinges on constantly, specially when you loose some one you love the most, your boy/girl friend ditches you, when you don't clear your interview and other idiots do. Even if you understand that "thank god achha hua" (in some cases), you still are so attached to that thing/ person event/ place.. that your heart mourns for it. In I don't know how to handle it. Some times I dance in gratitude, some times i cant stop crying about for it/him/her or for what I couldn't achieve.
I have learned to dance in gratitude (which earlier I didn't ). Guess I am improving :) and hope 1 day lord will take away all the attachment that makes me cry. (In other words I become so strong that little things will not bother me anymore).
So guys just keep smiling, because someone is definitely taking care of you and just smile through all the sorrows and bad times.
Cheers
