If you love someone, don’t set them free…
Looks like I’m in an all lovey-dovey mood today
Well… how many times have you heard this – ‘If
you love someone, set her free. If she comes
back, she’s yours. If she doesn’t, she never was.’
I’ve heard it like some zillion times till date… and
each time I’ve heard this, I felt something’s
wrong in there… and finally I know what!
Do you really think that if you love someone and
that someone, for some reason, feels detached or
slipping out of the relationship, you should just
set them free and let them be and actually slip
out? No. I don’t think so. What if that someone
feel that this person just doesn’t care whether
I’m there or not… I think one should make an
effort, never let them go, hold them, trust them,
love them, and cherish them. You can’t just ‘let it
be’ if you see the love fading out, provided you
really are in love… you must work on it!
There are so many times in any relationship when
you feel everything is just falling apart… imagine if
no one makes an effort at that point and just
keep singing this stupid quote in their minds, it
will actually fall apart. I mean how would the
person know what he/she means?
i don’t say that if you love someone, keep them in
a cage…you can’t. But don’t just take it for
granted that they will come back to you in any
case…in the needful times, you need to tell
them that they are needed back…. only if you
LOVE someone!
