Having chemistry is a funny thing. Everyone has an opinion about what chemistry is, when it happens, and if it's really that important. Trust me - it's really important. It's not just about the actual feeling which is pretty good in and of itself, but more about what happens to you when you feel that chemistry with someone.
We are hard-wired for chemistry. Chemistry is not about "trying", it is simply something that happens with no interference from anyone or anything. You cannot talk yourself into chemistry. No matter how much money he has it won't make any difference. I have tried to talk myself into chemistry - it doesn't work, ever.
But when you have it - what a difference it makes. Chemistry allows us to make-up instead of stay angry. For the feeling of chemistry, we move towards rather than move away. There is a natural inclination to connect and get closer. Connecting to someone's vibration is felt instantly and a softening takes place, a surrender. What felt blocked a moment ago now feels open. And being open is the beginning of any relationship.
