In a famous bollywood movie there was a famous dialogue,” A boy and a girl can not become good friends only”. There was the indication that they would definitely fall for each other. Well, in my opinion it may be true or may be not. What I felt and what happened to me is the story all about.
I met her in my school. She newly had joined in our class back then. A simple but very mysterious kind of girl-that would be her proper description. As happens in case of most newcomer, all were very interested about this girl. Well, I was too. She was and still is a beautiful girl and that added more charm in her. Some of my friends already had a huge crush on her. I used to laugh at them. To me girls were strangest of creatures of the world and I generally used to avoid their company. But the Almighty had something different in mind for me. One day I came to know suddenly that my dad and her mom knew each other from their childhood. And that was how we were invited in her house and our friendship started. May be she was my first female friend in the high school. I was shy and had difficulty while speaking to her at first. She was jolly and fun loving. I used to enjoy her company. But that’s when the problem started. A gossip was spread in our class about my relationship with her. She was hurt at this and started to avoid me publicly. Though I used to call and text her .Thus our friendship continued. In that period I developed an infatuation or may be true feelings for her which I was unable to express. Naturally I wanted her company more and more which she was unable to provide. I was a very sensitive kind of guy. So I misunderstood her behavior and gradually started to avoid her too. In this period I almost had no connection with her .
There goes a saying that `LOVE HAPPENS, IT CANT BE OTHERWISE CREATED’. And following this golden rule my real love entered in my life but that is another story. After my 10th board exam there was a very tough period for me regarding my career and mental condition. Even my close friends behaved me very rudely thinking about only themselves. I almost lost belief about the true meaning of friendship. But my old friend didn’t let that happen. We were in a common private tuition. She started talking with me and our communication resumed afterwards. We shared our problems with each other. Our understanding and bonding became very strong. Since then we are best friends. She truly knows my nature and characteristics as I do hers. Even though we do not call or text each other every day or even every week, our friendship has remained strong. The best part is she never ever tries to change me or get irritated or annoyed with my behavior and neither do I. Whenever I needed her she was there, if not physically present then calling me. I know most of people will not our relation. But it is how it should be. I long for her company, calling her affectionately ‘madam`. I wish her to be happy always and our hearts to be entangled with one another for ever.
