Living life with a mentality to have the right values and to think in the right direction is a volitional choice.What might appear right to me may appear wrong to someone else.But`that doesn't mean that nothing in this world could ever be right or wrong.To judge the right thing man has to deal his mind with an art of 'noncontradictive reality'.Reality is an axiom that existence exists and things are what they are.That A is and will always be A.This reality cannot be changed.It is the metaphysical.It is what it is seen that man cannot perceive it according to his own whims.To be noncontradictive is not to face any negation in your reasons.For if there occurs any then you are wrong.There might be a stage when your lack of knowledge makes you go in a wrong direction(There is never any automatic knowledge of knowing the right things in life).In that case perceiving the reality and observing the contradictive actions makes you achieve the truth.
We come in this world as totally incoherent beings,we who are born with nothing but only with a choice to think;yes it is a 'choice' only.Our senses are totally equipped with its presence,yet only few give sanction to it and accept it,only few desire to think;the rest remain as they were born-'inanimates'.
There is an initial stage of learning when man learns the basic things in his life:To write,To read,To see,To hear,To touch;in total I would say he learns to use his senses.Something that is common to every physically normal individual.Now the second stage is in which man is given a volitional choice to accept.If man accepts this choice then he chooses to think.If he does not then you know the end consequence.Now when one deals with anything he has to have certain sets of values and virtues.These cannot be made in one day.They are made in the being of the process.Values depend on an individual himself and so his course of thinking and action also varies among individuals depending on the same.The more variable the values the more different is the course of the individual.This in turn makes one person say something about an idea and the other person say something else about the same idea.That is to say that the same idea is both wrong and right.However every problem can have only one solution i.e.there is only one answer,the truth.Either one of them is wrong or both of them are wrong but both of them can never be right.It is an impossible task to link both contradiction and non contradiction together.If done so then it is a compromise.
It's the way one moulds his values in the face of an alternative that makes him choose one path.However,finally its objectivism only that makes one judge the truth,no matter which path one takes according to his values.Hence,values must always be built on objectivism in order to achieve a non contradictive realm.
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