Life is not easy but it can be so simple. Why do we feel the urge to complicate it and then brood over it? We don’t have to victimize ourselves all the time nor feel guilty about anything. Just take everything with ease and keep moving on. How difficult can that be? Our biggest enemy is expectations. The more we expect the more we feel disappointed. We want things to go in a certain manner which they might or not. Leaving us angry, frustrated and sad, in short disappointed. And as soon we get disappointed we start complaining. We start portraying ourselves as victims. Have we ever wondered that just like we have plans for ourselves, it might be possible that life could be having some plans for us too? to be honest apparently it all sound silly, hard to believe forget about following it. It may also mean being a fatalist. But what is actually fate anyways? Isn’t it something we choose for ourselves? Directly or indirectly? Knowingly or unknowingly? Aren’t we responsible for where we are today? I don’t know if anybody will agree with me on this but for me the answer is yes. By being responsible I don’t mean being a culprit. Just being aware of the choices we make at each and every living moment because eventually they will decide our future. Living fully in the present. Being fully aware of every thought, every feeling, every emotion that we base our decisions or choices upon. May be this way we would be less disappointed for what happened. And may be we won't end up feeling sorry for ourselves because we will know that it was our choice in the first place..
