Babydolls against Bullshit

Keep calm and flirt on-
If I keep this as my Display Picture being a boy oh dude you are a stud.
If I keep this Display Picture being a girl..oh what a slut/characterless girl.if I wear hot pants and walk out and guys stare okay my mistake.

If I cover my face with the scarf and go out yet boys stare.
Who is to be blamed for that?
A girl around from age group 14-30 gets raped it might be her mistake.
She should have remained in the house and all the blah blah.
If a 5 years old girl or 50 years old lady gets raped who is to be blamed?
As far as I believe they don’t walk in pub’s, party late night or wear revealing clothes.
When will we rise above such narrow mentality??
Firstly if I wear something and you don’t like move your eyes away.
At first place, if the change is required there are better things, to begin with rather than my clothes.
What is happening in society is particularly a mindset's fault?
Well no, each one of us are responsible.
I think I’m responsible too.
Let me explain why?
The famous song from the movie boss ‘party all night’
The video of the song shows honey Singh warming his hands near hips of a girl.
We enjoyed the song so much we dance to the song and also so many other songs that objectify us.
We say oh c’mon that is entertainment. Yes, we encourage such entertainment. We don’t mind honey Singh doing it in the video but if a boy in the pub will do it he will be slapped. Later when someone comments as if objectifying us. We feel offended.
Sorry, I’m not being orthodox my point is we are educated people we know that what happens in cinema isn’t the entire reality but the uneducated part of our society they idealize cinema. They think the celebrities are doing girl is enjoying. I will do she would enjoy as well.
Why isn’t cinema understanding its role?
Why we girls are acting as hypocrites??
If we feel offended by the sick statements then so should we buy lyrics or cinema that is building a wrong image of us in society?
We need a change everywhere.
Lack of moral education is responsible for sick mentality.
But the girls who are living with an inferiority complex that men are better than them, for them we need the education to give them confidence.
It’s like one part is touching sky the other is still there. I was amazed to find that even today a girl can think that they are nothing without their husbands. We in urban areas have reached far and the rural areas are still there with orthodox teachings instilled in them.
After nirbahya case, we stood up for girl’s rights. We all protested.
The protest was revolutionary in Indian history yet it wasn’t the protest that brought revolution.
And frankly, I don’t think protesting will give us any outcome because we all lose by something or other.
Some are punished. Few will be freed. Some are already free.
Few are guilty and some are not.
Few feel shame others blame.
Yet there is no change and I don’t see a big change in near future.
But we can all begin with small changes.
The small drops can fill the ocean.
I strongly feel that we all live by what our culture teaches us.
We believe’ feeding kanyas’ during Navratri auspicious and we feel proud in killing kanyas before their birth. Worshiping cows as our mothers is pious no matter by our actions we insult our mothers. We feel nothing while harming or annoying others sisters but we can kill if someone even thinks of harming our sisters.

My Indian culture is indeed rich but hypocrisy is taking over my culture.
If there was a wishing well or aladin’s chirag I would have asked for something.
No, I don’t want freedom.
But I want security, I don’t want to be judged over silly things that really don’t matter.
I want to be fearless in my own country. I want to feel proud when I talk about my country.
But these are my wishes but as the fault in our stars says-
"The world is not a wish-granting factory."
But apart from my wishes, I have to say something to the society.
“DON’T DEFINE ME ‘WHO AM I’
YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DO SO BECAUSE YOU ARE NO ONE WITHOUT ME.”
Sorry to be rude, but you don’t have any right to draw lines for us when you cannot draw lines for yourself.
Don’t tell us where to stop or our limits because you have been crossing yours.
This women’s day start respecting the gender responsible for your existence.
And to all the girls keep your head high. Believe in yourself even harder.