I hear a lot of my friends complain how they are sad, depressed and suicidal over the silliest things and I guess you read the title and followed this here. We’ll let me ask you have you ever felt lonely. Heartbroken? Alone? Unhappy? Parents fighting and you can’t do anything to prevent the divorce, your partner left you or worse cheated on you? Being 30 year old and having no job? Life not turning out the way you wanted too. Things going in the wrong direction and you’re just tired of trying and trying and you feel like giving up! Giving up on all of it and taking the easy way out. Yes! You though it right SUCIDE! Everybody has goals that sometimes can’t be achieved and people get depressed and sad about it. GOALS! “ I will marry her”, “I will do my best at the exam” “I will become a doctor”…everyone has goals..There is something you need to work for give your all in it. Even it’s your relationship it also requires work and enthusiasm. What do you expect? Next time you’re taking a shit and you’ll accomplish it? NO! That never happens this is not a fucking movie that everything will fall into place at the right time and the right moment. You need to work and suffer for what you really believe in. you need to get up and work! A broken heart? Boo-hoo my partner left me...what am I going to do? Fuck it! They didn’t deserve you in the first place beautiful if they left. Acting all depressed and shit won’t get you anywhere. I have a friend he tried committing suicide many times because his life didn’t turn out the way he wanted…so what? The kid got himself on his feet again and is working towards his goals! Depression is a funny word and people nowadays tend to overuse it. For Christ sake you have clothes to cover you, people who love you for what you are food to eat whenever you’re hungry, internet, water, so much more you could be grateful to God but NO! Instead you piss and moan at the things that went wrong and expect that magically everything will go right and fall into place. Go out and make shit happen because you want it to be like that. People like living in the past some do to remember the happy times and some do because it’s there comfort zone. But the past is past. You exist in now! You’re alive! A million atoms make up your single existence and you still choose to live in the memories of the past. That isn’t right. I’m not saying to get rid of your past! No don’t do that it’s what keeps you going all I’m saying is don’t let it get in the way of you and your happiness. Fear, anger, regret, guilt, frustration and remorse so much shit will get in your way but you got too pick it up and shove it down the hill and move towards being happy. Being depressed won’t get you anywhere now will it? all that matters is your perspective of the problem…some people have problems far worse than yours and some may have less but every person has problems…some people have it so worse that they don’t know where there next meal will be coming from and yet they remain hopeful….and let me tell you everyone is a struggler they have a story but now it’s all up to you if you want to make your story worth reading or not, be proud of your existence now!Be happy! You are alive and far better then so many people in this world. You have a lot to thank God for even for this life…the past you had and the things it taught you. Mistakes is a part of life that’s how we humans learn but its up to you if you would like your mistakes to conquer you and make you miserable or you defeat them and make yourself happy. I once met a man in the sawat valley who lived in the mountains in a wooden hut and you know what he said? He said to me that I know I am not rich, not famous and when I die nobody will know but I know I am happy and content by heart and that’s all I want. See? What was the point of telling you that I want you to be happy! Smile,eat,love and pray…you are a warrior on a journey and you will succeed because I believe in you and you should too…
